Many women are trying to answer the question “can my husband love me again”, because marriages often go in the direction of the economy. Instead of leaning on each other in tough times, we look for someone to blame.
Or maybe finances in your house are not the problem.
Either way it is tough to live in a bad relationship, always searching for ways to save your marriage. A marriage does take work to keep it healthy, but it is supposed to be enjoyable more times than not.
If you feel an increasing distance between you and your husband in the marriage then chances are that he feels it to. Just as you are asking can my husband love me again, maybe he is right now reading another article finding out how to make you love him!
He may be willing to make some changes in order to save your marriage also; but if not, your job will be a lot tougher or even impossible.
Right now, though, we will concern ourselves with you and what you can do; and work on him later.
Are you taking out any frustrations on your husband currently? If I asked him “is your wife a nag?”, how would he answer?
Do you disrespect him in front of others or the kids? We should be in the habit of building up our spouses, not cutting them down.
Understand that I am just covering bases here, you may not be guilty of any of these things. And maybe your husband is. To win back his love may require a little stretching on your part.
Our hope is that the end goal, getting him to love you again, will be worth it.
One common mistake women in your situation make is to feel there is a problem in the marriage and start “over compensating”. What I mean is that they may start trying too hard to seek attention and approval from their husband and end up coming off as needy or pathetic.
You do not need to go overboard the other direction to try to get your husband to love you again. Instead you just want to start acting correctly, and let the natural effects of treating him properly take hold.
Sure, there are a few special techniques we can show you, but in general we want you to stop doing what is wrong (if anything) and replace those actions with what is right – things our experience tells us work.
And be prepared for the mistakes you husband will make. If you can talk about what you are feeling with him and get him on board in rebuilding the love in your marriage then all the better.
But men are different creatures and will see things differently than women do. Understanding those differences can be key to your success.
What is the same is that your husband wants to feel love and appreciated just like you do. If he is not getting those warm fuzzy feelings of love from you then he may be withdrawing his love.
Send the proper signals in order to get the desired response.